Everything Changes In A Fixed World

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Graveyards eh, we are all drawn to them for a multitude of reasons. I like them for their gothic charm, their memories of people I used to know, and for the peace and quiet.

It took me a little Googling to find where Nanna and Grandad Boyle are buried but luckily I had some 2006 photos to help me.

Dad is now dead, my child is no longer a child, the horses are probably long gone. The church entrance is exactly the same, those trees are still there, and Nanna and Grandad's gravestone is as solid as ever, but changing with time.

Grandad holds his grandson in his arms as horses over a fence look on. The rich green countryside behind and a old wooden covered church entrance is to the right.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF A DEAR WIFE & MOTHER SUSAN BOYLE WHO DIED 5 NOV 1978 AGED 56 YEARS. REST IN PEACE

IN LOVING MEMORY OF A DEAR HUSBAND & FATHER MAURICE BOYLE WHO DIED 6 MARCH 1989 AGED 70 YEARS. REST IN PEACE
Wow, Nanna Boyle was a year younger than I am now when cancer took her 😓
North Cerney, Cirencester GL7, UK

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